The pic to the right is a screen shot of tweets in my timeline. I thought they were interesting and they got me thinking. It seems like in today’s dating world one often has to choose between true feelings and pure logic.
What I mean by that is…the person you normally have the most feelings for is rarely ever that person that treats you the way a person should be treated in a perfect world. So often you forced to choose between the person who does everything they’re supposed to and the person you actually love.
Now I’m not saying that it’s impossible be truly in love with the person that treats you properly. I’ve seen fairy tale relationships with my own two eyes. But I’ve also seen a lot of people in relationships with people they don’t truly love just because it makes logical sense for then to be together. And I’ve also seen people hopelessly glued to the object of their affections that also takes them through an endless cycle of pleasure and pain.
My question is for those who don’t have the fairy tale. My question is for those who’ve been in the perfect but perfectly boring relationship with the person they don’t really care for. My question is for those fight hard and passionately to make it work with the person that never seems to get it right but you love them to death any way.
Which is the better scenario? Is it better to be in a good but passionless relationship or is it better to be in a passionate relationship (or pseudo relationship) that will never live up to your (or anyone else’s) idea of what a relationship should be?